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I am going to give account of how these incidents happens and why most ladies fall victim, some ladies can’t open up to say it because it’s embarrassing so they keep it to themselves.
Women are one of the greatest gift nature gives to us, and the pleasure in between should be something a lady gives you a go ahead not forcefully but because of the way most of the young ladies behave they fall victim of rape.
As a young lady growing up, at the age 15 you are now a woman, you can now have pleasures, but mind you the way you live your life matters.
Now some bad men rape girls because of these :
1: They want to take advantage of you, since you have turned them down when they asked you out.
How do you overcome this : make sure you are not the type that are do hocking business so they don’t call you inside an incompleted building in the name of the buying something from you, thereby taking advantage of you.
2: Requesting money from different guys and refuse to visit them :
To avoid this, as a lady make friend with someone of your age mates, you are 15 years old and you are requesting money from a 26 or 30 yrs old man and you want to claim you are wise , up to 5 men in your contacts sub for you monthly, sends you money, and when they ask you to visit you claim you are busy.
3 : Don’t visit a guy at a place that is not his house : most ladies visit men in different places, you are dating a guy but you don’t know his parents, where he lives ,you don’t know all this things.
4: Don’t walk alone at night : some ladies don’t care about the terror by night, you will go out and stay till the day gets dark you now start going home.
5: Avoid wearing clothes that shows off your shape: most ladies all they like is short skirts and dresses, men will be lusting after you .
6: Don’t be faster than your shoulder : what do I mean by this, dating is not meant for young children, you are still growing up and you want to be among, you want to start feeling that your friends tell you about In school, you need to start dating.
7: Be grateful with the little things your parents gave you : most ladies are never satisfied your parents bought you a cloth, you want to buy the latest clothes your friend is wearing, you know the type of friends you have yet you keep admiring her, one day she will teach you how to make money and buy what you want.
If you dont do all this things, you will never fall a victim of rape .
Our parents also have a role to play in directing your girl child, you as a lady have to help yourself, avoid bad friends, be wise and live a decent life, stop demanding from men.
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